Seek & You Will Find: Reading Tea Leaves Part I


What is it that you are seeking in these unprecedented times? In the midst of pandemic fears, violent riots, government-imposed shutdowns, frightful news reels, social media bickering, and (as always) political mind games, what is it that you are seeking in your little corner of the world?

Although times might seem so different than they were just a half year ago, I’m betting that in some respects your needs are the same now as they were in January or February. Or put another way, perhaps you are still seeking some of the same things in your life now that you were back then, but now you need them more even more profoundly.

Maybe you need clarity of thought, relaxation of body, and peace of soul in your daily life. Maybe you need increased self-love, more faith in God, or an extra measure of physical healing. Maybe you simply need reassurance that everything will be okay. Maybe you’re feeling raw and vulnerable and at your wit’s end.

To that I say, if you are feeling exposed and confused and at the end of a rope or a road, then use that powerful state of being to seek all that you need from life. And by seeking, you will find: you will find your answers, your inspiration, your wisdom, your love, your connection, and your purpose.

A few years back, when I was walking through the difficult and dark nights of healing and personal transition, I was raw. And because I felt uncovered and rather unprotected, the world hurt. My nerves felt exposed, my soul felt heavy, and everything was able to affect me in dramatic fashion.

But as painful as that feeling of newborn bareness was, it was also inspiring. And I was able to find answers and wisdom and growth, because I was constantly seeking safety blankets, solutions, and a way forward.

To give an example, I was, for a period of time, drinking a lot of Yogi brand bedtime tea to help me deal with sleep issues. And it helped. Perhaps it was the root and flower combination in the tea, and perhaps it was the calming ritual of preparing and sipping this drink before bed each night, but in those countless cups of tea I found comfort. And I also found some inspiration and truths that were delivered to me via aphorisms printed on little pieces of paper attached to the tea bags.

For example, one night I might have opened up a tea package and read: “Experience will give you wisdom.” And the next day I might have been told, as I brewed my potion: “Listen and you will develop intuition.”

Now, had I been a bit “healthier,” say in the state I was in five years prior when I was living on prescription medications, cigarettes, coffee and hurried autopilot, I probably would have never been drinking tea and certainly would not have been taking the time to reflect on the “fortunes” stuffed within the packages. However, the universe had other plans for me, so my life was slowed down a bit and I was crying and seeking. And something in my gut compelled me to hold on to all of these sage pieces of tea-time advice for some future purpose, so I stuffed them into a Ziploc bag and waited.

Well, the time to unearth the Ziploc bag has come, and the purpose of those “tea scrolls” is manifesting itself in this blog post and the next. In the course of my next several writings, in fact, I am going to share with you a few of those Yogi brand proverbs and my short reflections upon them. I hope that you’ll enjoy the first batch, and I urge you to keep seeking so that you can find what you need.

“If you ask for nothing, you’ll get everything.”

How spot on is this most days? Admit it or not, we enter into most days greedily. We go into most days with expectations that, if met, will barely satisfy us because like market traders we have already built the meeting of those expectations into the price of our satisfaction.

We ask—and expect—the world from God, from our family members and friends, from society, and from ourselves. But what about if we simply released those expectations and then allowed spontaneity and peace to follow. That is how pleasant surprises happen again and again in this life.

The water can’t boil when it is being watched, so to speak, so if you have been focusing a little too intently on certain outcomes lately, why don’t you try releasing your expectations. Instead, simply focus on doing your part and working toward greater spiritual peace and increased health in your life. Then, when you are least expecting it, you will get everything you really need and more.

“Let your heart speak to others’ hearts.”

This is a principle of the soul that I try to honor each week. In my writing and in my videos, I try to let my heart speak to the hearts of others. And while it takes some courage to do so, that act is rewarded more often than not. By sharing my pain, my joy, my dreams, and lessons learned with others, others are able to find their own strength and hope. And in turn I’m able to grow and find community.

If you’re feeling vulnerable right now, that’s okay. Use that state of vulnerability to open up to others. By doing so you will find support, comfort, and a sense that your own life isn’t as messed up or uniquely tragic as you thought it was.

Let your heart do the talking, and others will respond.

“You will always live happy if you live with heart.”

How many instances of modern neurosis occur because we are living in direct opposition to ourselves? We are afraid to pursue the things that make us happy, we are afraid to speak and act as ourselves, and we are afraid to admit that we are unique and have unique needs and ideas. This all results in pain and confusion. However, if we can get closer to being in perfect union with our heart and soul, then we can find joy and excitement and that elusive contentment. Live with heart. Be yourself more and more each day, and find happiness by doing so.

“May this day bring you peace, tranquility, and harmony.”

When I was going through periods of high stress and confusing illness, more than anything I simply desired peace in my life. Tranquility, calm, and relaxation: Those were the things I dreamed about. And if you are currently feeling as if your hope is diminished and your nerves are frayed, I think that peace and tranquility are what you desire most of all, too. More than money, more than a promotion at work, more than adventure, more than fame, more than being proven right in some argument, we all just want peace in our lives!

May you find your peace and tranquility today. As you are reading this, I’m sending both of those things to you.

“Appreciate yourself and honor your soul.”

There are too many people out there who are either living in self-hatred or living a life that denigrates the very idea of their own soul. Some people give up on their dreams, and some get forced into a state of learned self-loathing because they’ve been abused by the actions or words of others who deep down aren’t feeling very loveable or satisfied either.

But there is always a remedy for such pain. Love, both from others and of self.

Love yourself today. Appreciate yourself. Take a moment to marvel at what a wonderful creation of God you are. Take a moment to appreciate the talents you were born with and those you have cultivated. Think of all that you bring to the world, and appreciate yourself.

Honor your soul by vowing to make the most of your life. In ways both large and small (and in some ways that are as of yet unimagined), vow to make greater use of your unique talents and energy. Make your contribution to the world. Do the things that interest you, and contribute to the lives of others in a way that only you can. Get closer to God, and allow Him to show you why He created you. You are unique and one-of-a-kind, so honor your soul.

Michael Priebe is a writer and personal development coach who has studied psychology, literature, and print journalism. He holds a journalism degree from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he graduated with honors. and over the years he has used both fiction and nonfiction formats to write about health, sports, professional life, politics, relationships, and spiritual issues. He puts out a variety of spiritually inspiring content at The Lovely Grind, and he blogs about his life at www.michaelpriebewriter.com. He invites you to find out more about his life coaching here, and he hopes you'll reach out to him on Facebook and Twitter.

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